OFFICIAL INTRO TO ME ;)

Official INTRO to Me ;) 

Hey, guys, Sandra Richmond here. So, I know my blogs ( the few I have practice posted ) have not looked magnificent. For that, I do apologize. I am totally NEW at this blogging stuff. I do plan on blogging least once a week. Try and keep up until I make it concrete. ;) I would appreciate some patience while I learn my way around it and if not, then screw you.  XD I'm just learning as I go. I have no rush. I hope you guys don't either. As long as I get the new books links and teasers correct, does it matter? For now, anyways, until I have something I hope others would enjoy hearing. I have TONS of blog ideas. It's just finding the time to write them.

I won't sugar coat shit for you all, because well, I was never really one to hold my tongue. XD I have no filter as most say and I 95% speak without thinking. But I believe that is the blonde in me. ;)
If you are on my personal Facebook, then needn't worry, you already know me pretty well. :D
If not, well, all I can say is, buckle up. It'll be a crazy ride.

Let's start.

I'm 26. Married to my best friend, I would have perished long ago if it wasn't for this man and his White Knight Syndrome, I don't know what have become of myself or my son. Tied the knot in Sept. 2011. Yup. It's been shy of 5 years. What a fucked up & wonderful 5 years, aye. Lol. We have 3 beautiful offspring together. Connor,8. Hunter, 4. Hadley, 6months old. Also, counting fur babies: DumDum, who is 5. Pitbull. (GatorxJeep) Audrey, 8. Pit & Lab & Retriever Mixed up mutt. (She's a bitch, Straight hubby dog, that one. We bump heads a lot.) Layla, 2. Chihuahua. (Connor's ankle biter. But we love her. *Hubby HATES her. More reason to keep her. Hehe. Keeps him on his toes.) Jorjia, 8. Blue Pit. (No longer mine, from reasons I wish to NOT get into. Just know, she was rehomed and is happy last I heard.) None the less. she will ALWAYS be my girl. IDGAF what anyone says. point blank. Period.
Moving On........

I am a loner, loser, & complicated wreck among many other bad qualities like, I wear my heart on my sleeve. I over react to 80% of shit. (Depends on the day & my mood, really. ) I am big on laughter. It heals the soul. My philosophy is no matter how damaged you are or think you are, laughter will heal you. Laughter is key to happiness. If you can't laugh, then, shit. Pull the stick out cha bum and exit stage left. Ya dig? :) I'm a lonely and fragile person. Take EVERYTHING to heart. Always have.

My kids are MY LIFE. My LEGACIES. I do everything for them. I want them to know what dedication is, motivation, passion, and most importantly, triumph. Triumph is my middle name. No matter if it was barely or by a long shot. My life is full of it. By learning from mine, I hope they take my lessons in advice and not seek their own experiences. Even if so, I'll be here every step NO MATTER what to help them triumph anything from first school day jitters to passing their drivers test to acing finals for college. I want my babies to feel love and compassion. Those are my hopes for them.

For each, Connor. He's autistic. He has some bumps in life already. But I'm here pushing him, cheering him on. He's a brilliant child. Very knowledgeable about certain things I don't find useful at this point in his 8year life. But, I would never tell him that. I support him in his interests no matter what it is because I know my close mindedness is on me. Him? This YouTube fixation could very well be his future career. Something in technology. He's obsessed with the military. (his father is an E5 in the military. *SGT* I think it all started there.) I believe with my heart he will go into some kind of technology with the military. Why? I simply believe he can. Because I beleive in him.
Hunter, Boy O boy... His preg. was very complicated. He was growing small, he has a "hot spot" on his heart. (built up calcium/calcium deposit on heart) One of his legs is slightly shorter than the other. i mean Slightly. not even noticeable at all. They feared he was Down Syndrome so I had to so an Amniocentesis. (OUCH & SCARY AS HELL) He comes back Neg. Then after all that worry and fear, He was a beautiful baby boy. @ 6 months old his soft spot closed. (That's wayyyy to early. they are supposed to closed around 18 months to 2 yrs. old) Imagine, talking brain surgery and relieving pressure on his  brain, nuoligists, and therapy. Etc. Scary ass shit.
Results: No surgery. He came along fine with no brain swelling. BUT, his milestones were weakened. He is 4 physically. But, about 2 pushing 3 in his brain. So, things as CURSING at Mommy. (Grrr) He is still learning right from wrong. But he is a firecracker. A leader. A shit talker, Lol. He has no respect for authority. A lover. A Fighter. An Amazing little boy. I can't wait to see what the future holds. I'm so excited to see him at his full potential. He's very motivated and dedicated already. I'm so excited for him.

I've always said, Connor has a college fund and Hunter has a bailout fund. Lol.

Hadley, my princess. Being 6 months old I don't know much yet on her personality, but of what I do know. She's such a beautiful soul already. She smiles at everything all the time. talking to her, coming in at 'good morning' at 'good nights'. She's a eater, 6 months old and weighing in at 9month old. She takes two things very seriously. Her food & her Bee movie. :) Yes, her favorite movie to watch. Her preg. was but far the worst. She was perfect. Me? I couldn't move without crying at 5 months preg. I had CONSTANT charlie horses that would hit so often I couldn't even shower unless I had a chair to rest in. It was horrible. Awful. & I would do it again in a heartbeat.
She's my dream. I use to spoil friends' baby girls all the time. Hoping one day I'd have my own. She came, just as I lost hope I'd have a daughter. God granted me my beautiful, perfect little princess.

Moving on. (Can you tell I love my babies? I could go on and on and on and on about them rugrats.)

I enjoy:  reading & writing (Obviously. ha.)
Sketching
movies
 Night fishing (Catfishing)
Dirt track racing.
Mudding
Music (All Genres)
 Crafting
I adore tiny miniature things. Lol. Idk why just do. XD
cooking
baking
family time!!
My mommy time with my mini me's. :)
Girl Time!
Family traditions
Organizing. Don't ask. :)

I collect:  Elephants, (Only with the trunk up!)
Skulls.
Camo, It's a country girl thaang. ;)
Dirt track racing things
Dogs, Particularly Pitbull things.
Motorcycle things
And anything with profanity on it. Hehe.

Dislikes: 
People
Individuals who are mean to animals
Individuals who are mean to children
Red lights
Unicorns
Anchovies
SPIDERS
A dirty home/house
Liars
Cheaters
Thieves
Disloyalty
Dishonesty
Shit talkers.
*That about covers that era. ;)
Let's see,
I'm very bossy; I like things a particular way. If you can't handle the way I run shit. Kick rocks. Simple. Lol.
I'm nieve. :( Always have been and still have yet to grow out of it.
I've got a mean streak far as the eye can see. Don't fuck with my family, inner or outer. Pets. Friends. Innocence in front of me or around me. We'll be fine and dandy.
Disrespect. HATE IT.
Mouthy younger people. It is me or do I feel a bit like my parents? Yes, Yes I do. Lol. What ya gonna do.
I have a heart of gold. I could be having the worst day possible. Come to me with a sad or bad day... I'm cheering you up. Period. Idk, could be the caretaker in me. Could be I know what it's like to have bad, worse and WORST with awful drizzled on top. I relate.
I'm sensitive, I get my feelings hurt VERY easily. I hide it or push me to my limits and I explode all over FB with it. LOL. it's a curse living so far from friends. :(
I hide everything. emotions, anger, sadness... You have to dig my emotions out of me. Get a backhoe. ;)
Well, I fear this is long. Too long. but, fudge cookie it. You only live once.
Enjoy the crazy experience that is Sandra. It won't be boring. But you'll have to catch me to see what's new. I'm awful at keeping a schedule. LOL.

Enjoy, buckle up, (Safety first, ya know.)
Any questions or concerns? Shove em. I'm doing bad all by myself. ;)

(Kidding, Email me if you have any Q's  or Concerns, ya dig? Or wanted to announce your undying love to me. I'm here.)